For
Without self-love, relationships become dependent and unhealthy.
Against
You can learn to love yourself through someone else’s love.
Anonymous excerpts, translated where noted.
“However, love must be for oneself first in order to live a healthy relationship.”
“If you don't feel good about yourself, it's difficult for the relationship to go well.”
“There can be many things that a partner helps you discover, a sweeter part, a crazier part, an interest.”
“The parts of you that the other person gives you permission to explore are yours.”