For
Common goals keep them moving in the same direction.
Against
Differences can exist if there is respect and compromise.
Anonymous excerpts, translated where noted.
“Planning for the future can't really happen passively.”
“you two formalize things to know each other deeply, to know if you have the same life vision.”
“it might be worth talking about with a couples counselor, to see if there's some kind of compromise you two can arrive at”
“Figure out how to resolve conflicts. how to communicate. compromise on small things.”