Love

Should people be completely honest about their past in relationships?

For

Honesty builds trust and avoids future drama.

Against

Some past events are private and not relevant.

Anonymous excerpts, translated where noted.

For

  • Yes, it is useful. I won't want to have a relationship with someone who killed a dog
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  • As an insecure and conscious person, I like to know about the past of those I interact with.
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Against

  • knowing numbers, how many you kissed, how many you had sex with, I think all of this is completely irrelevant
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  • I don't see my past as something negative or relevant to our relationship
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