For
Differences can make relationships exciting and balanced.
Against
Values and lifestyles need to be aligned for long-term stability.
Anonymous excerpts, translated where noted.
“someone different to complement and learn from each other”
“The fact that she is so different from me nourishes me every day”
“it is important to have the same values, some common interests to facilitate sharing”
“Someone with the same values, with whom we share interests, hobbies”