For
It protects people from being controlled by others.
Against
Humans are social and need emotional support.
Anonymous excerpts, translated where noted.
“It is freedom for you because you no longer allow others to be in control.”
“This is where we learn to take care of our feelings without needing other people to change.”
“The inability to receive support from others is a trauma response.”
“No hurt gets in. But no love gets in either.”