For
Missing someone shows deep emotional connection.
Against
Too much longing can turn into anxiety and obsession.
Anonymous excerpts, translated where noted.
“it's perfectly normal to miss someone you talk to all day, every day when they are not available.”
“this is just you missing your person and wanting to be by their side almost all the time; this is not a negative feeling”
“this is not just a need for love and connection, it's an unhealthy need.”
“When my partner takes space to live his own life, I feel so lonely, jealous, and depressed.”