For
Real love accepts flaws and mistakes.
Against
Healthy love should have boundaries and respect.
Anonymous excerpts, translated where noted.
“Unconditional love doesn’t have anything to do with boundaries imo. You can love someone while not letting them hurt you.”
“Love is one thing, behaviour is another. I can love you unconditionally and still yell at you if you're being an ass.”
“if someone is granted unconditional love, then it allows them the right to ignore your boundaries.”
“Adult love should have conditions like basic respect, honesty, effort, and emotional responsibility.”