For
Personal happiness should come first in choosing a partner.
Against
Family support is important for long-term peace and stability.
Anonymous excerpts, translated where noted.
“That it's not crime to choose your own happiness.”
“My parents wanted me marry someone from back home but I chose my own path - been worth every argument we had about it”
“It's a tough & lonely road, only take it if u r 200% sure about your partner.”
“We are divorced. It wasn't a healthy relationship. They saw that before I did.”