For
Self-care shows discipline and respect for oneself.
Against
Judging appearance creates pressure and unfairness.
Anonymous excerpts, translated where noted.
“I like the discipline and self-care in diet and habits.”
“I personally take care of myself, so I’m looking for a partner that also takes care of himself.”
“Not cleaning is so common for people who are ill and to go on Reddit and judge them for it is just wild.”
“It's basically a rule for me that I'm not allowed to go after anyone that I dislike for their physical appearance”