For
Attractive people receive more chances and attention.
Against
Skills and effort matter more in the long run.
Anonymous excerpts, translated where noted.
“Bosses would push me to more client facing roles”
“My friend is super pretty and fair, and I’ve literally watched her get opportunities just because of that.”
“I’ll say it does also help that I am good at my job, have good ethics, and am likeable”
“I follow it up by being genuinely kind and competent bc that is what’s actually important to me!”