For
White lies can protect relationships from unnecessary pain.
Against
Lies, even small ones, slowly destroy trust and closeness.
Anonymous excerpts, translated where noted.
“White lies can and do protect feelings, as well as relationships.”
“Telling a harmless white lie to avoid hurting someone's feelings is good manners from where I'm from!!”
“I not only feel bad about being excluded but feel bad about being lied to. In general, lying is a big mistake.”
“Small white lies to avoid conflict or accountability are not harmless. Conflict avoidance is a huge problem when it comes to a healthy relationship.”