For
It preserves dignity and unity within cultural traditions.
Against
Personal happiness and freedom should come before social expectations.
Anonymous excerpts, translated where noted.
“I think protecting families is more important than maximizing the pursuit of happiness of atomized individuals.”
“So defending your family's authenticity, history, and honor were important for everyone's survival. being recognized meant you and your children had a secure future.”
“Family is just not the most important thing. You are. Your happiness. Your discovery. You come first.”
“at the end of the day you’re the one who has to see this life through.”