For
It teaches respect for every voice and builds teamwork.
Against
Some decisions require leadership, not endless discussion.
Anonymous excerpts, translated where noted.
“All major decisions are made jointly. Teamwork makes the dream work, and we need to be on the same team.”
“A major decision that impacts the quality of life for both of you and your children needs to be a mutual shared decision”
“Doesn’t apply to all decisions, but certainly those which are high risk or can affect the parent-child relationship.”
“we make decisions together but sometimes defer to the other’s judgement if it’s out of one of our wheelhouses”